"They're So Tough" is a song by John Mellencamp that addresses themes of oppression, manipulation, and standing up against those who try to belittle or control others. The lyrics convey a sense of frustration and defiance towards individuals or entities who exert power over others. The song begins by describing how these tough individuals make others feel insignificant and inferior, emphasizing their desire to keep everyone down. They label others as stupid and lacking in common sense, extinguishing any spark of confidence or vision. The chorus expresses the singer's disbelief and refusal to accept this situation as the only way things are. The second verse talks about the false promises of these tough individuals, who often advise patience and claim that one's time will come. However, the singer has already experienced the disappointment by waiting outside their doors and walking their floors, suggesting they won't subject themselves to this treatment again. The lyrics also touch upon racial slurs, using the offensive term "nigger" as a metaphor to reject the attempts of these tough individuals to subject the singer to their control. The singer refuses to kneel and beg for their validation or token gestures. The bridge of the song expresses the singer's frustration with the lack of understanding and empathy from those in power. They sarcastically remark that they can't truly communicate with these individuals because they must be out of their minds. The singer disregards their words, implying that they are unable to see the real message or intentions. Overall, "They're So Tough" carries a message of defiance, resilience, and the importance of standing up against those who try to belittle or exert control over others. Mellencamp's powerful vocals and energetic rock sound amplify the rebellious spirit of the lyrics, emphasizing the need to resist and reject oppressive forces.
