"You Are Blind" by John Mellencamp is a song that explores the idea of being in love with someone who may not be good for you, yet you continue to hold on to them despite the consequences. The lyrics depict a person who is infatuated with a colorful and eccentric woman who is perceived to be broken-hearted and sad due to the world's troubles. The protagonist believes that they can save her and wants to be with her, even though she claims to be content with the way she is, saying that's how God made her. However, deep down, the protagonist knows that this love cannot last forever. They are aware of their own blindness and inability to truly love her in a sustainable way. Despite the stormy nature of their relationship, the woman takes the protagonist on various journeys, creating moments of both bliss and sadness. Sometimes, her touch is so gentle that it is almost imperceptible. Despite her declarations of love, the protagonist's mind understands the situation and recognizes that it may not be healthy. In moments when the protagonist contemplates leaving her, she pulls him back in, enticing him with physical intimacy. This leads to confusion and a spinning of the head, further reinforcing the protagonist's blindness to the reality of the situation. The song suggests that perhaps one day she will be gone forever, but it is always on her terms if they will be together. It is challenging for the protagonist to accept that she is just a human being, no different from any other woman. However, regardless of the distance or circumstances, the protagonist is willing to carry her forever because of their unwavering belief in her. Ultimately, "You Are Blind" portrays the struggle of being trapped in a toxic relationship, where love is blind and the protagonist is unable to fully see the truth or let go.
