"Getting Older" is a song by Billie Eilish from her album "Happier Than Ever." The song explores themes of growing older, solitude, and the pressures of fame. Eilish reflects on her journey as a young adult in the music industry and how it has affected her emotionally. In the lyrics, she expresses a sense of longing for someone to have warned her about the challenges she would face as she navigates adulthood alone. Despite feeling thankful and grateful for her success, Eilish notices that strangers seem to be more interested in her than those close to her. She confesses a desire for pity and attention when recounting her experiences, often making them sound worse than they actually are. Eilish admits that she may not be good at healing and that her words often sound rehearsed, possibly because she didn't receive the recognition she needed before. Eilish reflects on the irony of being ignored when she wasn't honest about her struggles, showing that her honesty didn't always lead to the desired response. This realization has led to her feeling estranged from certain people in her life. The song also delves into the idea of finding joy in things but eventually getting bored of them. Eilish explores the notion of caring deeply about something until suddenly losing interest. She acknowledges that this pattern is strange but common. As the song progresses, Eilish acknowledges that she is getting older and taking on more responsibility. She admits to getting better at admitting her mistakes and prioritizing her own happiness. She wishes that the promises she makes would depend on what she is given, not on someone else's permission or control. Eilish reveals that she has experienced trauma and done things she didn't want to, but was too afraid to speak up about it. Now, she feels it's time to address these issues and seek understanding and support from those around her. In the end, Eilish hopes to be in a better place and finds solace in the idea that she will be fine. She acknowledges her past struggles but looks forward to a future where she can laugh and find happiness. Overall, "Getting Older" is a reflection on Eilish's personal growth, her experiences in the spotlight, and her journey towards self-acceptance and finding her voice.
