"Wish You Were Gay" is a song by Billie Eilish. The lyrics describe the feelings of unrequited love and desperation towards someone who is not interested in the singer romantically. The song starts with the singer feeling unwell and confused about the other person's lack of understanding towards their emotions. They express their desire to hold onto the person, but the person refuses to reciprocate their feelings. The singer tries to mask their pain and pretend that everything is fine, but the days feel long and unbearable. The lyrics further mention the idea of the person being interested in someone else, which adds to the singer's distress. They express their longing for the person to be interested in them, even if it means the person is gay, suggesting that any reason for their lack of interest would somehow provide closure. In the later part of the song, the singer questions the reasons behind the person's disinterest and wonders if they need help or a specific explanation. The lyrics also mention how the conversations between them are no longer meaningful, indicating the growing distance. The song portrays the singer's frustration and the struggle to accept the reality that they are not the person's preferred romantic choice. They express their selfishness and helplessness in facing another day without the person they desire. However, the overall meaning of the song is not to promote or discriminate against any sexual orientation but rather to convey the singer's longing for the person to reciprocate their feelings.
