Elvis Costello's song "Can You Be True?" expresses the uncertainty and longing in a romantic relationship. The narrator questions the authenticity of their connection and wonders if it is truly real. They mention feeling an instant recognition of their deep feelings for the other person. The narrator anxiously desires to hear their partner whisper their name and confirm their commitment, hoping to hear the words "My Darling, you may be my man." The lyrics also touch upon the challenges that may arise in their relationship. There will be times when they have to be apart, but the narrator hopes that any obstacles they face will be overcome. They express their willingness to be there for their partner during difficult days and to bridge any physical distances that separate them. The narrator yearns for the comfort and stability their partner brings, expressing how they make everything feel right. The song acknowledges the evolving nature of relationships and the importance of paying attention to each other's needs. The narrator emphasizes the significance of listening attentively and being aware of the changes that may occur over time. They recognize that, in the future, they may not be as attentive or receptive. Overall, "Can You Be True?" encapsulates the uncertainties, hopes, and yearnings that can exist within a deep emotional connection and expresses the narrator's desire for a committed and authentic love.
