The song "How Do You Do It" by Empress Of tells the story of someone who is amazed and perplexed by the effect their partner has on them. The lyrics describe the narrator being in a state of disbelief and awe at how their partner can make them feel so fulfilled and complete. The opening lines, "Like a nail in the wood, Build this house from nothing, Now I stand where I've stood, Welling up with something," suggest that the narrator's relationship has provided stability and a sense of belonging. It has been built from scratch and has made them feel whole. The chorus repeats the question, "How do you do it?" multiple times, emphasizing the narrator's curiosity and wonder. They are seeking to understand how their partner has the power to affect them so deeply and make them feel alive. The lyrics also highlight the importance of physical intimacy and emotional connection in the relationship. Lines like "Let go of your touch, Would be too much for me" and "When your eyes tell my eyes, You've been wanting the same" suggest that the narrator finds comfort and fulfillment in the physical and emotional intimacy they share with their partner. The repeated lines, "Like this? Like that? Oh, how, when you do it, When you drive me mad" express the overwhelming effect their partner has on them. They are driven to the point of madness by the intensity of their emotions and desires. Overall, "How Do You Do It" captures the astonishment and admiration the narrator feels towards their partner and their ability to make them feel truly loved and fulfilled.
