The song "To Get By" by Empress Of explores the theme of using substances as a coping mechanism to deal with heartbreak and the pain of a failed relationship. The lyrics convey a sense of dependency on drugs or getting high as a means to numb the emotions and fill the void left by the absence of a loved one. The repeated lines "Got to get high to get by without you" highlight the singer's struggle to move on and function without their partner. They believe that getting high is the only way to overcome the sadness and loneliness caused by the separation. The lyrics also mention falling in love with the "same old drug," suggesting a pattern of relying on substances to deal with emotional turmoil. The line "Falling apart with a broken heart, I'm drifting away, drifting in two" reflects the internal turmoil and disconnection the singer experiences as they try to navigate life without their significant other. The repeated phrase "Got to say, say to myself, self wake up" indicates the singer's internal battle and the need for self-awareness and self-control to break the cycle of dependency. However, it seems the struggle persists, as they still feel the need to "get high to get by without you." Overall, the song portrays the emotional pain and dependency that can arise from a failed relationship, and the desperate search for relief and solace through substance use.
