The song "Thinking Man" by Joan Armatrading explores the desire for a relationship with a partner who is understanding, respectful, and intellectually stimulating. The lyrics express the narrator's frustration with past experiences of indifference and superficial connections. In the new edition (referring to a new phase or chapter in the narrator's life), she aims to eliminate any conflicts or disagreements. She longs for a partner who is not demanding and can speak their mind without causing arguments. The desire for emotional closeness is emphasized through the repetition of "cuddling close." The lyrics emphasize the importance of finding a "thinking man" who reflects their thoughts through actions and words. This refers to someone who is considerate, thoughtful, and mentally stimulating. The narrator craves mutual respect and communication in the relationship. They express that if respect is not given, it's better to not start a relationship at all. The song highlights the narrator's frustration with past experiences of indifference and longing for someone who truly listens and understands. There is a desire for a genuine connection that goes beyond physical attraction and instead seeks intellectual and emotional fulfillment. Overall, "Thinking Man" conveys the narrator's determination to find a partner who values their thoughts and emotions, and who can provide peace of mind in the relationship.
