"Big Sister" by Elvis Costello and The Attractions is a song that explores themes of manipulation, control, and surveillance. The lyrics depict a character, referred to as "Big Sister," who exercises power and influence over others. The song opens with the line "Sheep to the slaughter, oh, this must be love," suggesting that the narrator and others are willingly submitting themselves to the control of Big Sister, possibly due to a feeling of love or devotion. The line "All your sons and daughters in a strangle, all with a kid glove" implies that Big Sister treats those under her control with a combination of care and manipulation. The lyrics further describe Big Sister as someone who appears attractive and desirable, with "Eyes like saucers" and being "the blue chip that belongs to the big fish." This portrays her as a figure of power and allure, but also one who is ultimately controlled by higher forces or individuals. The refrain "Big sister will be watching over you, Sister see, sister do" highlights the idea that Big Sister is constantly observing and influencing those around her. It suggests a cycle of influence and imitation, where those under her control are expected to follow her lead and mimic her actions. The lines "She's got to save me, She's got you playing Russian Roulette" hint at the dangerous nature of being under Big Sister's control. Playing Russian Roulette symbolizes taking risky chances, blindly following her lead without fully understanding the potential consequences. The song also comments on the corrupt and immoral behavior of powerful individuals or figures in society. The lyrics mention the "old queen's heart" being stolen by the "prince of darkness," implying that immoral actions and scandals are common occurrences within powerful circles. The line "Compassion went out of fashion, that's all your concernment" suggests a disregard for empathy and kindness, emphasizing the destructive nature of those in power. Overall, "Big Sister" by Elvis Costello and The Attractions serves as a critique of power dynamics, manipulation, and the loss of compassion in society. It warns against blindly following and imitating those who exercise control, urging individuals to question and resist such influences.
