"Boy With A Problem" is a song by Elvis Costello and The Attractions, particularly the demo version. The song revolves around a narrator who feels like a troubled boy, unable to remember or forget certain things. The lyrics suggest that the narrator has caused a rift in a relationship, possibly through impulsiveness or thoughtlessness. The first verse showcases regret and remorse for slapping the other person's face and making them cry. The narrator acknowledges that hurting the person was the last thing they intended to do. Metaphorically, the following lines express a desire to retreat and hide away from the consequences of their actions. The second verse hints at a pattern of conflict in the relationship, with the other person resorting to both shouting and pouting. The narrator mentions days of silence that test their patience, while nights are spent drinking to remember the tender moments they have shared. This highlights the bittersweet nature of memories. In the next section, the narrator admits to a betrayal, sneaking out behind the other person's back. The phrase "The little they know might be the piece I lack" suggests the narrator seeking outside validation or fulfillment. Returning home drunk, the narrator's words are slurred, and they mention inviting other girls over. This implies infidelity or seeking solace elsewhere while having a problem within the relationship. The chorus repeats the feeling of being a troubled boy with a problem and an inability to recall what has been forgotten. The narrator seeks forgiveness from the other person, acknowledging their own shortcomings and hoping for understanding. Overall, "Boy With A Problem" explores themes of regret, conflict, betrayal, and the desire for reconciliation in a troubled relationship. The lyrics and emotions conveyed in the song showcase the complexities of human interactions and the internal struggles faced by individuals as they navigate these complexities.
