"Inch By Inch" is a song by Elvis Costello and The Attractions. The lyrics depict a complex and manipulative relationship between two individuals. The song opens with the suggestion of using various methods to escape reality, such as taking a powder (drugs) or a drink. The mention of keeping the shrink (referring to a psychiatrist) and the kitchen sink implies holding onto everything and anything that may help cope with life's challenges. The line "Write my name in heaven in invisible ink" suggests a desire for recognition or remembrance, but with the uncertainty of whether it will be noticed or honored. The lyrics then express the narrator's confusion, as they just woke up from a dream and are trying to differentiate between reality and fantasy. The following verses illustrate the power dynamics in a relationship. The narrator acknowledges that the other person has control over them. The phrases "take me over," "take me under," and "give me the slip" imply being manipulated or taken advantage of. The mention of a lady in the chamber and another in the clip suggests a double-edged nature, with hidden intentions or secrets. The chorus urges the other person to stay still, emphasizing the importance of their presence. The contrasting images of missing by a mile or inch by inch highlight the significance of even the smallest gestures or actions. The lyrical progression continues with the narrator expressing a willingness to be vulnerable and stripped down. They mention being taken outside and taken apart, indicating a desire for an intimate connection. The line "You made me love you when you thought you were so smart" suggests being influenced or tricked into falling in love without the other person realizing it. The chorus is repeated, emphasizing the significance of the other person's reactions and emotions. The mention of longing to see a specific expression on their face highlights a desire for validation and understanding. Overall, "Inch By Inch" explores themes of manipulation, power dynamics, vulnerability, and the desire for acknowledgment and connection in a complex relationship.
