"Little Triggers" is a song by Elvis Costello and The Attractions from their album "This Year's Model" released in 1978. The song talks about the complexities and frustrations of a romantic relationship. The lyrics describe the little triggers that provoke emotional reactions between the two individuals. These triggers are represented as small actions or words that have a significant impact on their relationship. The narrator expresses a desire to avoid being emotionally dependent or strung along when the other person doesn't communicate or reach out. The line "Little sniggers on your lips, little triggers in your grip, little triggers, my hand on your hip" suggests both subtle mocking and physical intimacy, possibly indicating a mixture of affection and tension between the couple. The chorus reflects the narrator's internal turmoil and confusion caused by the relationship. They worry about the consequences and overthink the situation, waiting until they regain their rationality. They acknowledge the need to maintain a sense of presence and reality rather than dwelling in apprehensions about the relationship's future. The verse about worrying about common decency and frequency implies a struggle with societal expectations and the tension within the relationship. The narrator feels dismissed when their partner claims to be tired of them, even though they haven't even expressed vulnerability. Overall, "Little Triggers" captures the complexities, insecurities, and power dynamics involved in a romantic relationship. The song explores the emotional struggles and uncertainties faced by the narrator, highlighting the need for open communication, understanding, and compromise within a relationship.
