"The Other End (Of The Telescope)" is a song by Elvis Costello and The Attractions. It was written by Costello and Aimee Mann and released in 1994 on the album "Brutal Youth." The song is a duet between Costello and Mann, and it explores themes of love, regret, and the complexities of relationships. In the lyrics, the singers ask if they can agree to change their lives, making themselves as insignificant or as important as the other person desires. They acknowledge that words they spoke turned out to be insignificant, disappearing like smoke. However, they suggest that there is always something simmering beneath the surface. The chorus highlights the difference in perception between the two individuals involved. While the events and changes may not matter to the other person, they have a significant impact on the singer. The line "At the other end of the telescope" refers to the perspective from a distance, where the singers hope to be seen. The song also touches on the dangers of indulgence and the consequences of one's actions. The singers mention immortal danger that was narrowly avoided, as well as being distracted by a heavenly choir. In the second verse, the singers describe a person's shrinking self-worth and confusion. The lines suggest that the person is ambitious but also losing their sanity. It becomes difficult for the person to answer a phone call, symbolizing their detachment from reality. The bridge of the song refers to the singer hurting the person they are addressing. They recognize their actions but believe the person's small-mindedness prevented them from seeing the problems and questions in their relationship. Overall, "The Other End (Of The Telescope)" explores the complexities and dynamics of a relationship, including individual perspectives, regrets, and the consequences of actions. It portrays a feeling of longing and introspection, as well as the challenges of understanding and communication.